what friends are for?

Yesterday I went for a outing, it was supposed to be a happy and catching-up session with a friend who is away in far far land for a while and she's back temporary. However words from insensible, insensitive and selfish person can hurt many hearts. Although I am not part of the close knit group, I can sense everyone affected is not being themselves during the outing.

It is all right to complain and shout out your unhappiness but there is always a limit. Human have their own prob and their way of handling it. Everyone has their own family and friends prob. When people has prob, some will find next closest member in their life; friends. Friends will always lend you listening ears, real friends will always try to help u. The UNAPPRECIATIVE friend did not acknowledge the little gestures or initiatives provided by real friends instead spit out words that rip up others' heart. The broken heart will be like broken mirror that cannot be mend to original form as spoken words cannot be swallow back.

Things ain't always what you see on the surface. People on the surface, who didn't say out their problem, do not indicate they have problem-less life and they have fortunate life. There are people who kept quiet, try to solve the problem or control the crisis to the level of minimal damage instead of complaining just to get others' attention or go around hurting people to vent out your sadness and anger by saying out naive and inconsiderate words. Do you ever thought of asking your close friends how r they; how are they doing instead starting conversation with your own problem all the time? There is NO NEED TO MAKE A MOUNTAIN OUT OF MOLE HOLE. You are NOT the most unfortunate people in your group of friends.

Friends are the next most important part in life after family so why not make the time spent with friends enjoyable and pleasurable although u are sad or in trouble. Why waste the energy and time to go out with friends when you just want to say hurting words in their face. You will never know what will happen in the future. In the end...in the end, it's too late. Learn how to FORGIVE, FORGET AND LET GO..

LIFE indeed is .L.iving .I.s .F.ucking .E.xperience. It is all right to feel negative because you are human but there is no reason for one to indulge in the pool of negative thoughts for too long as everyone will have their own shares of experiencing pain and suffer. One who still can spread joy and laughter to people around he/she, although one has the bad day, is one who know how to spent their life worthwhile and understand what is living a life. In addition, TIME AND TIDE WAIT FOR NO MAN.

If you think that everything around you suck to the core and everyone treating you badly, in short life suck or you have a fucking life. Why not sit back and think about what have you done for others? Maybe the problem lies within neither your family, nor people around you. It lies within you. One required a lot of courage to admit the problems and take a long time to rectify it. Although a leopard will never change its spot but it is not impossible.